Domain 7 Communication
You know the discipline situation from yesterday? Well, the mom went to the superintendent about it and I guess was upset about the whole thing. (and she showed no signs of that the entire time) Apparently, she referred to me as an instructional assistant and was upset that she hadn't received prior notice; she also thought her son's punishment was too harsh.
My teacher told me that the VP wanted to talk to me about it...that I had not done anything wrong, but he just wanted to talk to me. It was a great growing experience because I felt like he truly wanted to help me grow from the experience. I tried hard to balance defensiveness with letting him know my thought process. I guess I didn't realize that taking him to the office would equal suspension; perhaps that is why I hadn't made an effort to call his mom up until then. I was just still trying to get a feel for him and to chart his behavior so I would have evidence. I guess when it is something such as pushing and shoving, the parent should be notified of the behavior and that I am tracking it. It was just disappointing that she didn't handle it there with us but took it to the next level. I learned from the VP, and it wasn't awkward. I was thankful he approached it as such and was just willing to talk through it with me. I'm not quite sure of his exact purpose in doing so, but I think it was to help me grow professionally.
The want me to get my sub license so that I could sub for a maternity leave next semester. I am at the top of their list. I told them I was interested, but you know that is not my heart's desire at this point. It is just good to keep my options open and to get my foot in the door somewhere. Funny how I have made all these connections around here but come next August (Lord willing), I will be in an environment with to no connections. But who knows what could happen...God always has His plans to carry out!
Dr. Bennett is not coming; he can't fit it in. Just thought I'd let you know!!
One more day till break!
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Olivia,
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for the delayed responses!! I got so wrapped up in catching up in my own work that I forgot to check in again. My apologies.
It sounds like you are in a safe learning environment where the teachers and staff are willing to work with you and teach you as you learn and grow. Now you'll be better prepared and know when to contact parents and when it is ok to wait. You'll continue to learn many more valuable lessons such as this as you begin your teaching career...just keep a positive attitude and be willing to learn from each experience.
I'll be praying for you as you seek God's lead even for next semester!
Prof. Forshey